How was everyone’s Valentine’s Day? In this monthly edition of Ask Mistress Susan, I address how a lot of men want their women to act in the boudoir. Women, this letter could be from your husband/boyfriend.
Susan, I have a little problem. I want my girlfriend to do some of the things that the girls do in the adult movies but nothing over the top or unusual. I have talked to her about this and unfortunately she thinks that the stuff the girls do in the movies is degrading. I hope you understand what I am trying to explain. Can you please help me out? Tell me how I can convince her into acting like the girls in the movies. ~ I
Dear Mr. I,
What is the best sex ever? The kind where BOTH parties love it! Just like you don’t like doing something she likes, she doesn’t like doing something you like. Everyone is going to be different regarding what they like in bed. Keep in mind that your life is real and a movie is fake. Unless you are paying your girlfriend to be with you (if you are, then you may have a bigger issue), she is NOT going to like doing or want to do a lot of stuff that girls are PAID to do in the movies. Even Mistress Susan doesn’t do some of those things.
The first rule of any flourishing relationship is COMMUNICATION. I have never seen a flourishing relationship that didn’t follow this rule. Talk to her and find out what you BOTH like doing. There are a hundred ways to spice up your sex life. However, this may be one fantasy that you won’t get fulfilled by your girlfriend.
Whip of Luxury,
Mistress Susan
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